My journey, dating life and stories
Pleasurable Lessons
This blog is created with the aim of sharing my dating stories, including the highs and lows. I am often told that my tales of love and sex, even in their chaos, are quite interesting.
In this blog, I do not provide advice or tips on finding love. I myself am a failure in that department. I will share details of my personal life and sexuality without any taboos or reservations. This is meant to reassure women who are going through similar experiences that they are not alone. Many of us accumulate failed dates or experiences, as our beloved psychologists and life coaches would say.
I share anecdotes to laugh about, not to dramatize. Life is too short to spend it lamenting or whining. Together, we will laugh at my various adventures, some of which are quite thrilling.
I have chosen to maintain anonymity out of respect for the men I have encountered, who will be featured in this blog. It will also protect me from potential backlash, as the truth can sometimes be hard to digest, and my stories have some spicy elements.
To provide some context, I am a woman in my thirties, divorced and without children. I have a high-level job and achieve professional success, but on the flip side, I face romantic failures.
If any of my stories resonate with you, feel free to leave a comment. This blog is dedicated to sharing experiences, so I would be delighted to read your thoughts as well.
Latest articles
Dr. Heartbreak: The Rollercoaster of Passion and Vulnerability
I thought I had found the perfect rhythm with Dr. Heartbreak; sensual nights, stimulating conversations, and a bond that felt unbreakable. But beneath the passion and intimacy lay an impenetrable armor he had built to protect himself from love. Despite my efforts to challenge his beliefs, the highs of our connection were overshadowed by the lows of his distance. Little did I know, our story was only beginning to unravel as I met someone new, and the emotional rollercoaster took an unexpected turn.
Unforgettable Passionate Connection: My Story with Dr. Heartbreak
I opened the door to find a tall, handsome man with piercing blue eyes and a charming smile. The instant chemistry was undeniable. Our conversation flowed effortlessly, and when he leaned in, asking softly, ‘May I kiss you?’ I was already lost in his gaze. That first kiss ignited a connection so intense, it felt like stepping into another world. Little did I know, this unforgettable night with Dr. Heartbreak was the beginning of a story that would change the way I see love forever.
Breaking Free: The Final Chapter of My Journey with the Bachelor
How could I miss a man who only cared about his needs? A man who lacked the decency to offer me a drink when I visited him at his place—who would casually crack open a beer for himself and only after a sip, remember to offer me the same, knowing full well that I don’t even drink beer. How could I miss someone who never bothered to make me feel welcome, like the time I brought breakfast over and he didn’t even offer milk for the coffee? Or the countless times he would serve himself first, leaving me to fend for myself, even when I had cooked dinner for both of us. His disregard for basic manners and the concept of being a gentleman should have been a wake-up call, but I was too blinded by my emotions to see them clearly.
A Poisoned Gift: The Perils of a Toxic Situationship
I missed him deeply during our no-contact phase, feeling every moment of our separation. When he unexpectedly reached out with a blatantly sexual message, it reignited the complex dynamics of our toxic situationship. Despite my desire for a genuine connection, I found myself drawn back into his manipulative grasp, leading to a tumultuous journey marked by emotional highs and devastating lows. This toxic relationship profoundly affected my mental and physical health, underscoring the dangers of holding on to someone who only wants to use you. As I navigate the aftermath, the lessons learned from this poisoned gift continue to shape my path forward.