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Four months ago, I matched with a charming, blue-eyed cowboy who promised old-school romance and daily good morning texts. He crossed the border to take me on a date, kissed me like he meant it, and called me “his.” It all felt like a fairytale—until the hotel booking, the condom request, and the slow unraveling of everything he pretended to be. This is the story of how one “gentleman” turned out to be a walking red flag with a southern accent.

He said he didn’t know what love was—until he cried for another woman. That moment shattered something in me. Our last night together was beautiful, heartbreaking, and necessary. It was our goodbye. But life, in its strange ways, brought him back—just not in the way I expected.

Just when I thought I had moved on, Dr. Heartbreak pulled me back in with a confession of how much he missed me. One month apart only intensified our passion, and our reunion was nothing short of electric. From the sensual surprise of my new lingerie to the way he worshipped me that night, it felt like we were in our own world. But as reality crept in, so did the inevitable goodbye. His visa was expiring, and his return to France loomed over us. We held onto each other, savoring every moment, knowing our time was running out. The countdown had begun, but neither of us was ready to let go.

After a year of reflection, I finally found closure with the Bachelor. Despite the hurt and mistakes, apologizing allowed me to let go of guilt and learn invaluable lessons about boundaries, self-respect, and healthier relationships. Our story may have ended, but the growth it sparked will stay with me forever

How could I miss a man who only cared about his needs? A man who lacked the decency to offer me a drink when I visited him at his place—who would casually crack open a beer for himself and only after a sip, remember to offer me the same, knowing full well that I don’t even drink beer. How could I miss someone who never bothered to make me feel welcome, like the time I brought breakfast over and he didn’t even offer milk for the coffee? Or the countless times he would serve himself first, leaving me to fend for myself, even when I had cooked dinner for both of us. His disregard for basic manners and the concept of being a gentleman should have been a wake-up call, but I was too blinded by my emotions to see them clearly.

I missed him deeply during our no-contact phase, feeling every moment of our separation. When he unexpectedly reached out with a blatantly sexual message, it reignited the complex dynamics of our toxic situationship. Despite my desire for a genuine connection, I found myself drawn back into his manipulative grasp, leading to a tumultuous journey marked by emotional highs and devastating lows. This toxic relationship profoundly affected my mental and physical health, underscoring the dangers of holding on to someone who only wants to use you. As I navigate the aftermath, the lessons learned from this poisoned gift continue to shape my path forward.